90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Vanja Grbic dated two men back-to-back in season 7 and yet managed to get heartbroken twice, but she shouldn’t be blaming Božo Vrdoljak or Josko Luketin, because the real problem is Vanja herself. Vanja described herself as the “Jill of all trades” during her interview. Vanja bragged about having four jobs without knowing that the man she was “dating” was jobless and homeless and didn’t even like her in return. Vanja’s over-confidence leads her down the path to heartbreak.

However, Vanja being Vanja, didn’t learn from the mistake she made with Božo. She was setting herself up for emotional damage again when she met Josko. Her ego became a blindfold for Vanja. She became a victim of her own pride. It’s never a bad thing to have loads of self-confidence and independence, but things went South for Vanja because she expected too much from men she knew too little about. Vanja needs to spot her own shortcomings. Unfortunately, her inflated ego will never allow her to see the truth.

Vanja Flew Across The World For A Man Who Wouldn’t Answer His Phone

Vanja Expected Božo To Fall In Love With Her

90 Day Fiancé‘s Vanja and Božo had known each other for half a year, and they had already split once. Božo had ghosted Vanja and later informed her that he wanted to break up because he was going to try and get back together with his ex-girlfriend. Somehow, Vanja knew he was going to come back to her, which he did. Vanja took Božo back because her high ego didn’t want her to come across as a loser. She wanted to one-up Božo’s ex-girlfriend. In her head, she and Božo were going to get married because Božo wouldn’t find anyone better than her

Vanja didn’t retrace her steps to America when Božo stopped answering her calls. Vanja ignored all the signs from the universe because she never expected Božo to say no to dating her. Vanja still flew to Croatia and accepted the flowerpot Božo had picked for her from the dumpster. She thought so highly of her that she thought she could make Božo fall for her even though he admitted he didn’t have any feelings for her. Vanja’s pride wouldn’t have allowed her to get dumped by Božo. She somehow managed to have the last laugh and it massaged her ego.

Vanja Continued Her Croatia Vacation

Vanja Was Certain She’d Find A New Guy To Replace Božo

In Vanja’s mind, she had a boyfriend. Meeting Božo broke that illusion. Now she needed to find someone to step into Božo’s shoes and had to do it quick. Accepting defeat was against Vanja’s nature, so she went back on the apps so she could romance a different Croatian man on the same vacation. Her over-the-top enthusiasm scared the first man she met away, but in walked Josko with the washboard abs… and a baby! Vanja was worried about what kind of stepmom she’d make. Of course, she wanted to be the best one there’s ever been.

Vanja Expects Josko To Leave His Life In Croatia For Her

Does Josko’s Baby Not Matter To Her?

However, Josko doesn’t seem to think so. Josko broke up with Vanja within weeks of meeting her, which was expected by the pace at which this relationship was progressing. Vanja should have let a rebound be a rebound. However, she already believed Josko was moving to the U.S. with a one-year-old child to be with a woman he’d just met. Vanja didn’t consider the challenges Josko would have to face, including his visa or permission to leave his country. The 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star, sadly, only thinks about herself and maybe deserves the split.