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Hilary Duff‘s husband Matthew Koma has had his say on the recent ‘Toxic Mom Group’ drama, slamming ‘self obsessed’ and ‘tone deaf’ Ashley Tisdale with a cutting Instagram post.
Koma, 38, took to Instagram on Tuesday amid speculation that Ashley, 40, had fallen out with his wife Hilary, 38, over alleged mom-group tensions.
He poked fun at Tisdale’s recent essay in The Cut with a mock headline that read ‘When You’re the Most Self Obsessed Tone Deaf Person on Earth, Other Moms Tend to Shift Focus to Their Actual Toddlers.’
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Koma also photoshopped his own head onto Tisdale’s body, recreating The Cut image of her seated on a white couch wearing an all-black outfit. The image also featured a smaller headline that read, ‘A Mom Group Tell All Through A Father’s Eye.’
It comes after Tisdale’s essay, called ‘Breaking Up With My Toxic Mom Group,’ detailed her feelings of feeling frozen out by friends during her postpartum period.
The High School Musical alum had previously raved about her ‘village of moms,’ which included Duff, Mandy Moore and Meghan Trainor, after welcoming her first daughter Jupiter in 2021.
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Hilary Duff’s, 38, husband Matthew Koma, 38, has weighed in on the recent ‘Toxic Mom Group’ drama while roasting Ashley Tisdale, 40; Duff and Koma seen in 2025
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Koma took to Instagram on Tuesday amid speculation that Tisdale had fallen out with his wife Hilary over alleged mom-group tensions; Tisdale pictured in 2024
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Fans quickly speculated that the unnamed group included Duff and Moore, particularly after Tisdale unfollowed both women on Instagram.
Tisdale, who also shares a 16-month-old son Emerson with her composer husband Christopher French, joined the mom group created by longtime friend Duff, with the women sharing vacations, baby classes and playdates over the past four years.
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However, Tisdale recently wrote about ‘breaking up with my toxic mom group,’ explaining she began to feel excluded during vulnerable postpartum months.
Expanding on a November 2025 post for her blog ByAshleyFrench, she later penned an article for The Cut, though she did not name any of the women involved.
She wrote that she started noticing she wasn’t invited to certain gatherings, which she later saw posted on Instagram.
‘It took me back to an unpleasant but familiar feeling I thought I’d left behind years ago,’ she wrote.
‘Here I was sitting alone one night after getting my daughter to bed thinking Maybe I’m not cool enough? All of a sudden I was in high school again, feeling totally lost as to what I was doing ‘wrong’ to be left out.’
She said she ultimately texted the group after being excluded once again, writing: ‘This is too high school for me and I don’t want to take part in it anymore.’
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He poked fun of Tisdale’s recent essay in The Cut with a photoshopped image and a mock headline that read, ‘When You’re the Most Self Obsessed Tone Deaf Person on Earth, Other Moms Tend to Shift Focus to Their Actual Toddlers’
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It comes after Tisdale’s essay for The Cut, called ‘Breaking Up With My Toxic Mom Group,’ detailed her feelings of feeling frozen out by friends during her postpartum period
