In a story that resurfaced and went viral again in late 2025, a 79-year-old British multimillionaire has revived his long-standing matchmaking quest.
Sir Benjamin Slade, a baronet and estate owner with deep roots in British aristocracy, isn’t just looking for companionship; he’s advertising for a partner who can help him produce a son to inherit his sprawling estate.
The announcement has gone viral on X (formerly Twitter), sparking a wave of reactions from disbelief and laughter to deeper debates about age, tradition, and modern relationships.
A Very Specific Request
Rather than leave his legacy to chance, Sir Benjamin has outlined an unusual public “call for applicants.” He’s offering a salary of £50,000 per year, along with accommodation, meals, and bonus perks, for a woman who meets his detailed list of requirements.
The goal is clear: to find someone capable of bearing him a male heir to carry on his family line.
This isn’t the first time Sir Benjamin has made waves with his personal life. Over the years, he’s tried everything from newspaper ads to online dating profiles and even TV appearances in his search for the right partner.
Age Gap Alert
First on his criteria: the future Lady Slade must be at least 20 years younger than he is. That means any woman in her 60s is automatically out of the running.
Sir Benjamin’s reasoning isn’t just about age. He has cited inheritance tax advantages of marriage, particularly for passing the estate to children.
Odd Rules and Red Flags
But the age gap isn’t the only eyebrow-raising part of his ad. Sir Benjamin’s list of qualifications includes:
You must not be a Scorpio.
You must not read The Guardian newspaper.
You must not be from countries starting with “I” or with green in their flag
Taller than 5ft 6in (167 cm)
At least 20 years younger than him (he is 79, so preferably under 60)
A helicopter licence, shotgun licence, driving licence, and legal or accountancy training are listed as bonuses.
He also wants someone fit, socially active, and capable of managing his estates and staff.
You must be of childbearing age and a “good breeder” capable of producing two sons (an heir and a spare)
Many of these requirements have been widely shared and ridiculed online, with users calling them bizarre, outdated, and frankly chaotic.
‘Good Breeder’ Language Sparks Outrage
The phrase “good breeder,” used directly by Sir Benjamin Slade, has been particularly controversial. Some social media users and commentators have criticized it as dehumanizing, while others note that it reflects a mindset rooted in old aristocratic tradition rather than modern dating norms.
In a past attempt, Sir Benjamin fathered a daughter via IVF with American poet and composer Sahara Sunday Spain in 2021 — but he reportedly canceled two planned weddings and has had no contact with the child since.
Here are a couple of standout shots from the original viral post and related memes:
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Why This Story Is Blowing Up and What It Says About Us
In 2026, this hits different. Social media amplifies everything. Slade’s story taps into hot-button issues like age-gap relationships, gender roles, and inheritance in a modern world. With fertility tech advancing, more older folks might chase similar dreams.
It also flips the script on celebrity baby news. While stars like Al Pacino father kids in their 80s, Slade’s blunt approach rubs people the wrong way. Is he a relic of old aristocracy, or just honest about what many think privately?
Discussions rage on X. One thread asks if this is empowering for women or reductive. Another debates ethics: Should titles still favor sons? In the UK, some peerages allow daughters to inherit, but baronetcies stick to males.
Slade’s search highlights class divides too. For him, it’s about preserving wealth and status. For others, it’s a reminder that money can’t buy everything, though it might buy a shot at immortality through kids.
As reactions continue to roll in, one thing’s clear: this story won’t fade soon.
Will Slade find his match? Or will backlash scare off suitors?
